Balance is basically the equality of the poles apart.

This beautiful painting above for example: 

• orange and blue are the opposite colors.
• gray is neutral so it does not have any effect.
• orange and blue together complete each other.
• this way, you can appreciate the orange and blue more. Because they can show themselves more with each other. 

So, always think about what you have and what you expect. 

If you think that everything is perfect, believe me there is something wrong you don't know yet.

If you think everything is bad, maybe you just can't see what you have to be appreciate. 

You can think by your Brain but cannot decide without your Heart! That's actually a scienctific fact but we'll look at it later.

So, you defined all the logical data and make a good connection between what you have and what you want. And also, you draw a couple of possibilities you may choose. 

So, how you're gonna choose?

Basically all these paths are equal and direct you to same goal. 

That, you need to listen your emotions.

• You need to feel yourself
• ask, am I feeling comfortable with this idea?
• or am I feeling stressed and scared?