Couples go through harmony, disharmony, and repair. So they will inevitably get into arguments. However, what matters is how you fight. Don't highlight everything negative while taking the positive for granted.

• Start by saying to yourself, "What are the one or two things that they have done that I can appreciate?" If you start with that, you will fight differently.

• Stay focussed on the one thing that you're upset about at this moment. Don't end up talking about other things.

During disasters, our priorities get reorganised. The extra often gets thrown out. Changes get made. "We will move. We will change jobs. We will live closer to our parents." There are so many new openings.

The cracks in relationships may be amplified, but the cracks can also let the light shine through.

While couples are stuck together during this crisis, it's important to know that they'll turn on each other and take things out on each other. This is normal.

Instead of fighting, admit it together, and go from "I and you" to the "we." "What is this doing to us? What does 'us' need at this moment?"