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When we're around straightforward people we know exactly what the issues are from the start. They know what they want and they are not afraid to state it:
They are the opposite of straightforward people. They are very hesitant about the validity of their own desires and that is why they are not capable of letting the people around them know how they really feel.
The root cause of our complicated behavior is not that we're bad people or manipulative. We're just afraid of how people would respond if our real intentions would be known.
The child experiencing this grows into an adult that prefers to imply rather than state.