How to Be Better at Stress - Well Guides

Regular exposure to stress in small quantities can prepare us to handle a big stressful event in our lives. Prepare yourself for stress by self-education about the stressful event, by doing some physically stressful activities like completing a marathon, or something you dread, like giving a speech.

Repeated exposure to mildly stressful conditions can alter your body’s biological response to stress, making you manage stress in a better way.

Socially stressful programs and activities like:

• Basic Military Training
• Boot Camp
• Wildlife Camping Trips

have skill-building, uncomfortable situations by design, that help kids and adults incorporate social and intellectual abilities.

Resilience is our ability to 'bounce back' from difficult experiences. There are several ways to practice it:

• Reframe a seemingly negative condition.
• Focus on core belief or faith.
• Find a role model who has come through adversity.
• Face your fears and confront them rather than avoiding.
• Take the support of religion or spirituality.
• Reach out to friends and family.
• Exercise.
• Challenge yourself regularly in physical, mental and moral domains.
• Find meaning and purpose in your life.

Consistent exercise helps in handling stress by:

• Providing our body with the physical conditioning it requires to recover from stress.
• Producing mood-boosting endorphins in the brain (especially weight training).
• Outdoor activities boost your mood further due to the natural surroundings and fresh air.

Our mind may be the key tool in handling stress. And it needs rest to recover and handle the stressful situation in a better way.

• Meditation: Our mind is an emotional muscle, and meditation is the tool to make it rest and restore itself. Controlled breathing is one of the best ways one can improve concentration, vitality and boost one's immune system.
• Journal writing: whether it is a daily journal, or a mission statement or even a priority list, it can help us reflect on our situation, change our perception, and identify obstacles that may be hindering our goal.

Sudden and acute stress can shutdown our appetite temporarily as a stress-response mechanism, but chronic stress (anxiety, worry) can increase our appetite.

Mindful eating, which involves eating slowly and relishing every bite, while being aware of the food that is going in us, is extremely important. Be present in the moment and savor the food you're eating.

The support of family and friends is a vital element in handling stressful situations. 

• Seeking, and giving support is a powerful way to manage the stress in your life and boost your resilience. This includes listening to and emphasizing with a friend, mentoring, and volunteer work.
• Acts of physical touch can ease your stress, like hugging or holding hands.
• Spending time with animals is known to reduce stress, and there is ample evidence that pets are a source of comfort and stress relief.

While some stress is essential for human function, chronic stress creates a cascade of physical changes throughout your body: 

• Heart problems: high risk for high blood pressure, heart attack, and stroke. 
• A weak immune system, leaving you vulnerable in the face of illnesses. 
• Diabetes risk: Chronic stress can lead to extra blood sugar. 
• Stress can cause stomach and digestion problems and increase the intake of unhealthy foods and alcohol. 
• Sex and reproduction problems in both men and women.