This Is The Most Fun Way To Make Your Life Awesome - Barking Up The Wrong Tree - Deepstash

Studies show there is a group of people who live really good lives. They are happier, have more friends, are more successful, are good parents and community members. These people h...

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This Is The Most Fun Way To Make Your Life Awesome - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

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Our stories are important

Our stories shape the way we make sense of the world. It allows us to find answers to questions like: Who am I? What is right and wrong? What am I required to do?

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You have a story, even if you're not aware of it. Dan McAdams, professor of psychology, mentions that we can view our stories in two ways that can impact our lives.

  • The contamina...

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We can turn a contamination story into a redemption story by acknowledging the painful moments, then learning how to create a better life because of it.

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Most generative people feel they have a gift, but they're also empathetic. They notice that others suffer and use their gift to help them.

Whose sufferin...

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People with high generativity don't question and debate the meaning of life every morning. They have clear values that they live by.

You must make a decision...

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Redemption means not letting those terrible moments contaminate you but finding benefit in the negative and using it as something to grow from.

What was a big setback in ...

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Agency and communion are fundamental motives. It is how to get ahead while getting along. You can't help others if you don't believe in your ability to make a difference.

Are you too focu...

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If you have no goal to work toward, no dreams, you may get stuck in a contamination doom loop, where you say, "I haven't... and probably never will."

But the story isn't over...

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The Redemptive story resonates with all of us. It's the core of classic movies, great biographies and Sunday sermons. Even People Magazine uses this structure in about 52% of their stories.

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