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This Is The Most Fun Way To Make Your Life Awesome - Barking Up The Wrong Tree

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Studies show there is a group of people who live really good lives. They are happier, have more friends, are more successful, are good parents and community members. These people h...

Our stories are important

Our stories shape the way we make sense of the world. It allows us to find answers to questions like: Who am I? What is right and wrong? What am I required to do?

O...

You have a story, even if you're not aware of it. Dan McAdams, professor of psychology, mentions that we can view our stories in two ways that can impact our lives.

  • The contamina...

We can turn a contamination story into a redemption story by acknowledging the painful moments, then learning how to create a better life because of it.

Most generative people feel they have a gift, but they're also empathetic. They notice that others suffer and use their gift to help them.

Whose sufferin...

People with high generativity don't question and debate the meaning of life every morning. They have clear values that they live by.

You must make a decision...

Redemption means not letting those terrible moments contaminate you but finding benefit in the negative and using it as something to grow from.

What was a big setback in ...

Agency and communion are fundamental motives. It is how to get ahead while getting along. You can't help others if you don't believe in your ability to make a difference.

Are you too focu...

If you have no goal to work toward, no dreams, you may get stuck in a contamination doom loop, where you say, "I haven't... and probably never will."

But the story isn't over...

The Redemptive story resonates with all of us. It's the core of classic movies, great biographies and Sunday sermons. Even People Magazine uses this structure in about 52% of their stories.

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