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You feel the way you think. In other words, your negative emotions, like depression and anxiety, come from your thoughts and not from the circumstances of your life.
The negative thoughts that upset you are nearly always distorted and twisted. Theyāre just not true. Depression and anxiety are the worldās oldest cons.
When you can change the way you think, you can change the way you feel. Best of all, that change can happen rapidly, even if the feelings of depression and anxiety are severe.
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You think about yourself or the world in black-or-white, all-or-nothing categories. Shades of gray do not exist. This is also known as ādichotomousā thinking. For example, you tell yourself, āIām a total failureā after flunking an exam.
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Overgeneralization.Ā You think about a negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat or a positive event as a never-ending pattern of success. For example, you label yourself āunlovableā after a breakup.
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Mental Filtering.Ā You focus on something bad and filter out all the positivesāor you focus on something positive and ignore all the negatives. For example, you get one low rating in a job evaluation and conclude youāre doing a lousy job.
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Discounting the Positive/Negative.Ā You tell yourself that certain negative or positive facts donāt count to maintain a negative or positive image of yourself or the situation. For example, someone compliments you, and you tell yourself, āTheyāre just saying that to be nice.āĀ Feelings of inferiority nearly always result from mental filtering and discounting the positive.Ā
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Jumping to Conclusions.Ā You jump to conclusions that arenāt warranted by the facts. There are two common versions of this distortion.
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Magnification and Minimization.Ā You blow things out of proportion or shrink their importance inappropriately. This is also called the ābinocular trickā because things look much bigger or much smaller depending on what end of the binoculars you look through.
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Emotional Reasoning.Ā You reason from how you feel. This can be very misleading because your feelings result entirely from your thoughts and not from external reality. For example, because you feel like an idiot, you reason you must be one.Ā
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Ā Should Statements.Ā You make yourself miserable with shoulds, musts, or ought tos. Self-directed shoulds cause feelings of guilt, shame, depression, and worthlessness. Other-directed shoulds trigger feelings of anger and frustration toward others. World-directed shoulds cause feelings of anger and frustration toward the world.
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Labeling.Ā You label yourself or others so you see your entire self (or someone else) as totally defective or superior. For example, when you make a mistake, you call yourself a āloserā instead of saying, āI made a mistake.ā
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In fact, this is why people often resist treatment. Their negative thoughts and feelings can be helpful and appropriate because they reflect their core values as a humans.
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