A seed which is buried in the sand fights with the small rocks and sand to push its first leaflet above the ground. Does the first leaflet enough? No it once again fights with pests and the shadow of other trees to grow stronger and taller.

Likewise humans cannot grow without their own kind of obstacles. If a person needs to grow first he should bury himselves with all the responsibilities and take accountability on his actions to fight with all the obstacles like stress, depression, deadlines, etc.. You may be blocked from the sunlight (Goal) by other trees (Humans). So fight and grow Tall.