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How To Stop Caring About What People Think & Do - Darius Foroux
5 min read On the outside, it often looks like people don't care about others. It appears that people are selfish. But if you take a closer look, you'll see that everyone is affected by what other people think and do. Let me give you a few examples: The guy ...

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Belongingness

Humans have an inbuilt drive to belong and be accepted. This makes us care about what others think of us.

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Mission = Value + Vision

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Create Your Own Group

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How to set the right example

  • Expect from others what you expect from yourself. Never ask for something you're not doing.
  • When things go wrong, try to stay calm. Life is nothing but a series of solved problems. 
  • When you screw up, admit it. There’s no place for your ego.
  • Be clear about your values and rules. People must take you seriously.
  • Respect others and don’t try to change them. It’s impossible to change people. You can only change yourself. 

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“Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.”

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  • Don't buy the stuff you can't afford.
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