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https://www.businessinsider.com/why-people-are-compulsive-liars-2018-6

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The psychological reasons why some people can't stop lying
There are several theories for why some people can't stop lying. Narcissists are often pathological liars, because they simply don't care about the truth. They prefer to tell lies and gain control over people than be honest. Sometimes, compulsive liars are highly impulsive people who struggle to take the time to think things through and tell the truth.

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Narcissists are often pathological liars

Narcissists lack empathy, so telling the truth does not matter to them. They may not even realize they are lying most of the time, because they are not aware of it.

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Compulsive liars are not necessarily bad people

Compulsive liars are often too careless to tell the truth. They don't take the time to think things through.

Although it is really hard to break this habit, they need to learn to control thei...

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