STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF

STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF

When you see people having things you want and doing things you want to do…. Do you tell yourself, “That will never be in the cards for you.”?

🛑 STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF 🛑

The second you tell yourself, “Why bother trying, that will never happen for me,” your inspiration evaporates. You kill your dream. You invalidate yourself. 

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This is the FATAL mistake you’re making that keeps you unhappy in life (and how you can fix it)

This is the FATAL mistake you’re making that keeps you unhappy in life (and how you can fix it)

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Convert that feeling into motivation

The only reason it’s not happening is because you keep telling yourself it won’t. When you give up on yourself, you give up ALL the things that are actually meant for you in this life.

TRY THIS:

  • Allow that feeling of envy or jealousy to propel you forward to take action.
  • Understand that you GET to want those things and you CAN have them but it’s going to require ACTION

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ACTION PLAN

Next time you see someone with something you want or doing something you want to do, tell yourself, “I CAN get it - I just have to be willing to put in the work.” You are 1000% capable of doing the things you dream about, having the things you desire and putting in the work to make them a reality 🚀 

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When we're around straightforward people we know exactly what the issues are from the start. They know what they want and they are not afraid to state it:

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  • If they are frustrated about something we do, they will kindly tell us (instead of pilling up anger and envy inside)
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  • What would my life look like 5 years from now if I continued on the same path that I am on
  • What could be an alternate path that I could take if the upper plan fails
  • What would my life look like 5 years from now if money and society were not factors
  • Focusing on these questions and your answers if you will be able to introspect what are you doing with your life currently 
  • And how close are you from the third path because if you are doing something that people consider as work and you consider as play and get paid for it 
  • THAT's THE THING THAT YOU WOULD LOVE TO DO

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