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18. Saying no tactfully & clearly will keep u out predicaments.

You will find as you journey through life there are people out there who think they know what’s best for you. So they will attempt to control, manipulate, and influence you toward their agenda.

Don’t let them do it.

You’ll need to learn to say no to people . Know that you can say no clearly and tactfully at the same time.

Sometimes you may want to give a reason for your decision. But you don’t owe anyone a reason.

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