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When you start to judge someone for what you hate, you are doing it because there is a part of them that is also a part of you. So the more you judge them, the more you are eating into the part that you dislike about yourself.

The next time you feel like making a judgment, stop, realize what you are doing and learn to let go. Give up your fear of judgment but not judging others and working on what you dislike about yourself.

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Fear Of Failure

Fear Of Failure

The fear of failure doesn't make you more successful, it severely holds you back. It makes you unwilling to take chances, leave situations that you don't want to be in, or change your circumstances. 

Failure isn't a finality, it's a learning opportunity. It is your life telling you what is...

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Things You Must Give Up To Have Better Future

Things You Must Give Up To Have Better Future

Sometimes, to have a better future instead of adding or following more new things, you must have to give up or sacrifice some of them. There are some things that are not needed and it makes you move in the wrong direction sometimes, so by sacrificing all of them, you will definitely lead a succes...

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Negative Thought And Self Talk

Negative Thought And Self Talk

Negative thoughts will not serve you anything positive. They will just fulfill your self-doubt, keep your mood feeling low and knock your confidence back rather than achieving great things. And don’t get confused with negative feelings because they can definitely be useful in the power of emotion...

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Self Doubt

Self Doubt

You are unconsciously sabotaging your progress when you indulge in negativity. Your journey to success starts the moment you condition your brain to believe this is where you want to go. If you continue to believe otherwise, then you shouldn’t expect success to follow through.

Rather than ...

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Hastily Made Choices

Hastily Made Choices

You’re in no hurry. There’s enough time for everything, and nothing will pass you by if you stop and think for a second.

Sure, it’s important to allow yourself to be spontaneous and crazy every now and then, but most of your decisions should have a clear process of thinking standing behind...

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Chasing Wrong People

Chasing Wrong People

It doesn’t really matter if you’re chasing someone because you want to be their friend, or you want to get romantically involved with them, but you need to stop that right now.

If a certain person doesn’t appreciate you and your efforts enough to give you a chance, things should be quite s...

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People Pleasing

People Pleasing

It is a jungle out there. Everyone is clamoring to be noticed, to be ahead, to become game-changers. Hence, people will not baby-talk you all the way. You have to prove yourself through hard work without expecting that everyone will believe in and compliment you.

Quit doing things for the ...

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1. Excuses

It's okay to want to explain why you aren't where you want to be. But you also have to realize that justifying it won't get you there any faster. In life, you either do or you don't. 

You either waste time placating yourself into stagnancy, or you get honest about where you are and make a ...

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Ignoring Your Feelings

Ignoring Your Feelings

Your anger? It's telling you where you feel powerless. Your anxiety? It's telling you that something in your life is off-balance. Your fear? It's telling you what you care about. Your apathy? It's telling you where you're overextended and burnt out. Your feelings aren't random, they are messenger...

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You'll dislike the hard work at first because you'll tell yourself you dislike hard work. What you're feeling is not dislike. It's fear. Fear of failure. You're afraid to disappoint.

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