Attraction is based on our values, the criteria that we have set for certain someone who will qualify to date us. We desperately seek that for immediate comfort we need, a sort of validation we seek from the society around us. It's scale that dooms us into failed after failed relationships and meaningless crushes and dreams. We are not interested in their talks, in their interests but in fitting them even by mental force in to that list of values. We are looking for a trophy to show others, which represent the values we live by or at least try to incorporate in us..
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There is need to see through the deceptions that our mind create while meeting someone new. Controlling the powerful urges leading to a meaningless relationship helps to navigate our romantic life better.
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