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From The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women: Why Capable People Suffer from the Impostor Syndrome and How to Thrive in Spite of It :

  • Do you chalk your success up to luck, timing or computer error?
  • Do you believe "if I can do it, anybody can"?
  • Do you agonize over the smallest flaws in your work?
  • Are your crushed by even constructive criticism, seeing it as evidence of your ineptness?
  • When you do succeed, do you secretly feel like you fooled them again?
  • Do you worry that it's a matter of time before you're "found out"?

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But here's the upside : you can now use your knowledge of this emotional blurriness to your advantage. Since the cause and meaning of feelings is all about interpretation, you can choose to interpret them differently . The court of emotions has an appeals process.

If you ...

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People are afraid that even if they develop self-efficacy they'll backslide into impostor feelings. Don't worry. If you really go out of your way to push hard on the 4 principles above, self-efficacy can become as stubbornly lodged in your brain as the feeling that you're a fraud is now.

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When work is a blur it's easy to think you just got lucky. But I'm guessing you've noticed that people who are very confident about their abilities can often explain them to you. They're aware of their system. Step outside yourself and notice what you do that gets the results. As the great Carl J...

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Impostor syndrome is about your lack of belief in your skill at something. Having self-efficacy is a healthy amount of belief in your skill at something. If we increase the latter, we get rid of the former. We need to get you to believe that your ability - not luck or mere hard work - is the prim...

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How to get rid of imposter sy

  • Enactive mastery experience: Recognize your system. Tennis lessons don't increase tennis luck.
  • Vicarious experience: If they can do it, you can do it.
  • Social persuasion: I, for one, happen to think The Force is ...

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To help people improve talk about things they can do something about, rather than those out of their control. Critiquing the former makes your criticism constructive; critiquing the latter makes the person feel bad as they can’t do anything about it, even if they want to.

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