Others believe their basic qualities, like their intelligence or talent, are simply fixed traits. They also believe that talent alone creates success - without effort. Instead of developing their talents, they spend their lives documenting and proving themselves.

This is the growth versus fixed mindset, first discovered by Stanford University psychologist Carol Dweck . She explains:

If you've ever failed at reaching any goal in life, the problem could all be in your mind. That's how important your mindset is.

If you want to real change, you need to start reframing your mindset.

Stop reacting to life and start responding to it.

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