How to really mess up your problem: with real life methods: - Deepstash
How to really mess up your problem: with real life methods:

How to really mess up your problem: with real life methods:

There are majorly two ways to really really mess up your problem. Any one of these is enough to make your life miserable.

  1. Denial of your problem:
  • The first step to actually start entangling your problem, is to deny that you have one. This thing, you can do when you just realise that you have a problem.

2. The victim mentality:

  • The second step, after you get into one problem, is blaming the outside circumstances for it. Remember, no outsider can be responsible for your inside chaos.

MORE IDEAS FROM The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck

Emotions are sometimes overrated!

Emotions, are simple. Their complexity is often overrated. Broadly, you can divide your emotions into two parts:

  1. Positive ones: One which makes you feel better.
  2. Negative ones: One which makes you feel sad, or sometimes, even desperate.

Even their meanings are not much complex. to really make your life simple, you can:

  • Take the negative emotions as a call to action. If you can, then do something about it.
  • Take the positive ones as a reward for those call to actions. It's something to cherish upon!

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RELATED IDEA

If you constantly give too many fucks, it means that you don't have much going on in your life to give a real fuck about. Maturity is when we become selective in the fucks we give. If we give better fucks, we get better problems and better problems lead to a better life

What we consider life-problems are just the side effects of not having more important to worry about.

  • Life isn’t meant to go your way all the time, and that’s okay. It’s okay for life to suck sometimes because that’s part of life.
The first step to not giving a fuck.
  • Understanding the whole damn concept: Not giving a fuck does not mean being indifferent. Rather, it is the art of wisely choosing the fucks that we do decide to give.
  • Hence, the sad truth: You see, you are going to die soon. And probably everyone you know and love will, too. And in the short time between now and then, YOU HAVE A VERY LIMITED AMOUNT OF FUCKS TO GIVE. Hence, it is important that you make selective choices of the things you devote your time and attention to (or give a fuck about) before then, or you're likely going to get, um? FUCKED.