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A guide for having successful dates

A guide for having successful dates

You'll learn to:

  • take a break from dating if you feel burned out
  • admit that you'll never be 100% ready for a date
  • make it clear for yourself that it is a date, not a job interview 
  • decide, don't slide

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While love may be a natural instinct, dating isn't

Dating is a skill - you can learn it, and get better.

Dating requires exercise, patience, and knowing what you are looking for. 

Make it clear to yourself that you are worth it and build your positive mindset. 

 

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