478 STASHED IDEAS
upstream effort- effort exerted opposite to the flow of life.
downstram effort- effort exerted in the flow of life.
Top performers have a very clear idea of how they wanna feel everyday. They don't try harder when hit obstacle. They re-memorize. what are their core values. What are your core values what do you wanna feel.
Now, It's time to bring these values and feelings/emotions to the outer world. Act according to these values and feelings. Sometimes the choices of the decision will be against. But you need to take them Ex- quitting a famous job if it doesn't align with your values and feelings
Imagine if it were your last day. You are most likely to spend all your money on buying expensive clothes, smoking cigarettes you've never tried, types of alcohol or beer you've quit years ago. Working what you love, working for whom you love, studying as hell are very unlikely. That's why theis advice makes you depressed. makes you frown. Last days aren't pretty.
A girl had 180 days to live. the whie 180 days wer HELL. She got depressed like orse than hell. UNTIL her 181st day. Her attitude changed. She got her car back, left bad habits. She was POSITIVE
Ask yourself If it was my first day...
you want to change, you know you should change, but you don't change
6 powers of influence- 2 columns of motivation and ability, 3 rows, each of personal, social, structural.
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