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Familects are part of the backstage talk we use with people closest to us. They're a home slang and becomes integral over time in your inner circle.

Familects help us feel like family. The in-group language nurtures a feeling of intimacy and establishes identity. Sharing one's familect is also an act of welcoming outsiders into one's clan.

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Research found that people with a higher sense of well-being had more frequent and longer interactions.

  • They had meaningful conversations two-and-a-half times more often than those with the least healthy social biomes.
  • They had two-thirds of interactions with close friends and family, where those with the least healthy social biomes less than half.
  • Most surprising, they felt good, connected, and happy to be alone.

The social biome: how to build nourishing friendships – and banish loneliness

theguardian.com

Children cannot give up on their parents or guardians, even if there is cruelty, neglect, coldness, unreliability, meanness, or broken promises. The love certain caretakers provide is blended with dark and unhealthy elements, and yet children keep the faith that the person in charge of them will get better or are not as bad as they seem.

In face of continuous neglect or even torture, the child thinks the problem may be with them

The Capacity to Give up on People

theschooloflife.com

  • In the 18th-century, dozens of writers took to a new form of fiction that focused on ordinary things – coins, banknotes, shoes, carriages, dolls. 
  • These stories brought things to life, granting them their own voices. 
  • Today literary scholars call them “object-narratives” or “it-narratives”, so named after their inanimate protagonists. 

Why we value diamond rings and other Valentine's Day gifts

theconversation.com

Most narcissists do not fall in the two extremes of angels (zero narcissism) or demons (impairing disorder) but are somewhere in between, a grey area where they exhibit a certain level of narcissism. This makes diagnosis difficult in most cases.

Psychologists have identified two broad types of narcissism, the grandiose and the vulnerable.

What the new science of narcissism says about narcissists | Psyche Ideas

psyche.co

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