Difficultconversation Ideas - Deepstash


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Questions to consider before you skip, delay or have that difficult conversation with someone

What is my “hidden hope” for this conversation?

What can I realistically hope to achieve?

What’s my contribution to the situation?

Do I tend to look for problems with this person or about this issue?

Is it already starting to resolve itself?

Have I done a “H.A.L.T.” check—Am I hungry, angry, lonely, or tired?

How long ago did it arise? Is it a repeat or recurring problem?

How material is the issue to your relationship or to the job?

Do you just want to be right?

Do I have concrete examples and solutions?