Being introverted can keep you from new experiences and meeting new people. Studies show that we feel happier when we act more extraverted than usual because doing so increases our engagement with the world and our connectedness to others, which are basic human needs. For example, you go to a party you didn’t want to go to, but you meet a person who becomes your best friend or your new boss or your networking partner.

Extraversion increases engagement with the world

A strong extravert is not only chatty and sociable but also optimistic, assertive, energetic and receptive to positive emotions. Consequently, extraverts tend to be happier in life and more confident, which can benefit their careers and health. A strong introvert is quiet and reserved and experiences less high-energy positive emotion in life. They avoid too much stimulation and are more averse to risk. While there are advantages to being more introverted, you may feel frustrated by your introverted leaning and desire to come out of your shell to the extent that works for you.

Extraversion-introversion tendencies

Many of our behaviour is a profoundly ingrained part of who we are. But others are learned over the years from the many experiences in life. Rather than waiting passively for life to change you, you can change your habitual ways of being. With persistence and motivation, you can take intentional control over the forces that shape your personality toward becoming more extraverted.

Mindset for change

Some ways to help you focus your intentions: <ul><li>Talk to close friends and/or family members about your goal of becoming more extraverted. Ask for their advice.</li><li>Observe your own behaviours. In which situations could you be more extraverted than you currently are? </li><li>Write down your pros and cons of being an extraverted person.</li><li>Identify people in your environment who are more extraverted than you are. Then consider what they do differently.</li></ul>

Warming up for change

Strong extraverts can happily strike up a conversation with strangers and consequently become practised at small talk and establishing new relationships. Consider if-then plans, such as ‘If I am buying groceries, then I will say hello to the check-out assistant.’‘If it’s a Tuesday, then I will ask one of my colleagues to join me for a coffee.’ Write them down somewhere you’ll notice them. To learn how to strike up a conversation with strangers, come up with several hooks or memorable talking points related to your current interests so that you can answer "What do you do?"

If-then plans

Extraverts are bolder than average because they believe events will turn out well. Techniques that can help you to boost your optimism are:The best possible self intervention: For 5 - 15 minutes, picture yourself in the future in a scenario where everything in life has gone as well as you wanted. Do this daily for about two weeks to gain maximum benefit.Practise cognitive reappraisal. Try to reinterpret the feelings of anxiety or nerves as excitement.Build strength through physical fitness to increase your confidence.

Boost your optimism

Use situations and relationships around you to shape your levels of extraversion. <ul><li>Consider how certain people and circumstances tend to bring out different sides of your character. Being strategic about the situations you put yourself in and the people you are with will help you make it easier to become more outgoing.</li><li>Instead of relying on your usual routines, consider ahead of time what you will do the coming weekend and who you will do it with. Aim to spend time with people who make you feel relaxed and confident.</li><li>Sign up for a club or group activity, such as a hobby, sport or game.</li></ul>

‘Outside in’ strategies

You are far more likely to succeed if your desire for change serve a more meaningful value or goal. Research confirms that changing goals and priorities often precede personality trait change and not the other way around. Therefore it's worth reflecting on why you wish to come out of your shell. If you think that enhancing your extraversion will serve your overriding purpose or goals, you will be more motivated to change.

Consider your overarching values and goals

You don’t have to be outgoing. But if being introverted is holding you back from the life you want, dive in for a way out

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How to come out of your shell | Psyche Guides

Carl Gustav Jung coined the terms introversion and extraversion in the 1920s. According to Jung: <ul><li>An extravert wants intensive contact with the outside world.</li><li>An introvert turns the psychic energy inwards.</li></ul>Yet no one is 100% extraert or introvert. Most people tend to one or the other side.However, iff both characteristics are equally present, they have an ambivert personality.

Carl Jung on introverts and extraverts

In the 1960s, Hans Eysenck added to Jung's ideas. He thought the main difference between introverts and extraverts lies in how they recharge their mental energy.  <ul><li>Introverted people have a higher level of brain activity and need to protect themselves from too much external stimuli. They gain mental energy by withdrawing themselves.</li><li>The extravert has less neuronal activity. They overcome this lack by exposing themselves to external stimulation, which charges their inner batteries.</li></ul>

Hans Eysenck's ideas

Introverts may walk away from small talk to recharge, but that doesn't mean that they are shy. They may not be afraid to talk to anyone, but when too many people are around and the conversation becomes superficial, they get tired. One strategy is to withdraw and recharge through silence.

Introverts are not shy

Some experts state that extraverts and introverts use different brain areas to form their ideas. An extravert relies on short term memory and can come to fast associations and ideas. But they often speak before they think. An introvert retrieves information from long-term memory. Their thoughts are more complex and need time to develop. That is why they think first before they speak.

Extraverts and introverts use different brain areas

Good teachers are aware of the differences between extraverts and introverts and try to develop their strengths. They help extraverts to learn to formalise their thoughts before they speak and introverts to get more talking time to practice their public speaking. Group projects can support both temperaments. Extraverts can learn how to develop more complex thoughts while introverts can learn to think and speak more flexibly.

Developing the strengths of extraverts and introverts

Introversion and extroversion (or extraversion) are terms first coined by psychiatrist Carl Gustav Jung in Switzerland of the 1920s. According to Jung, an extrovert seeks intensive contact with the outside world. An introvert instead turns the psychic energy inwards. Jung believed that no one is 100% extravert or 100% introvert instead we carry both traits. However, most minds tend to lean either on one side or the other. If both characteristics are equally present, we can speak of someone who has an ambivert personality. Never miss a new video with our newsletter: http://eepurl.com/dNU4BQ Join and support us! www.patreon.com/sprouts www.sproutsschools.com Special thanks to our Patrons: Cedric Wang, Eva Marie Koblin, Mike, Julien Dumesnil, Orc Oran, Mathis, and the others. You are amazing !!! Join our supporters and help us reach students and teachers worldwide with friendly videos that explain difficult things simply: www.patreon.com/sprouts Full Script: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YCiXRT8h26R-eYBKPYG6i_C0x1bYrpdRRn6Kjxqja0Y/edit?usp=sharing

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