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When was the last time you sat in silence with yourself, I'm not talking about the character you play infront of everyone to seek validation. I'm talking about the self which is exhausted, the self which is guilty for it's dishonesty the self which is ashamed of coming out. You very well known about which part of yourself, I'm talking about. So today take a moment to sit in silence with that coward guilty ashamed part of yourself and tell her it's time to come out because those who matter they dont judge and those who judge they don't matter at all. So today just practice being real.
We cannot please everyone at all.
Even if we only wanted to do good for everyone.
I wouldn't have understood this concept so deeply If I didnt see this with my very own eyes.
1) In the networking group I'm in.
2) On tiktok (Just check out the comments section)
No matter how clearly we write or disclaim, someone else is bound to interpret it the total opposite.
- Even to the point of misconstrue
So what's left is just for us to suck it up, reframe and do our best work.
Let this human phenomenon sink in and soon we'll stop feeling bad from being criticised by others.
Without context, success is a meaningless word. Does it mean a particular bank balance or fancy title? The admiration of others? A level of impact on the world? A state of mind? The ability to sleep comfortably at night knowing you've lived up to your own values? There is no way to independently answer these questions. The advice "how to be successful" is pretty useless (or worse, guilty of implicitly reinforcing the unexamined and often harmful assumption that success means being rich and powerful). It also means that there's no one who can tell you you're successful (or not) but you.
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