Money, and the issues around money, are notoriously anxiety-provoking, and our coping mechanisms are usually unhealthy  - for example, aggressive avoidance — a more slow-simmering form of agita that merely (and literally) compounded the problem.Money doesn’t just represent safety and security and stability. It is safety and security and stability. It is also unavoidable. This means your feelings about money are along for the ride, too — no matter how much energy you expend trying to escape them.

Money Anxieties

<ul><li>Figure out how you actually feel. Yes, you’re anxious, but what kind of anxiety? When do you feel anxious? Where do you feel anxious?</li><li>﻿Once you become more aware of your anxiety, try to pinpoint the specific financial concerns that it stems from. Then, you can start checking them against reality.</li><li> Money — and anxiety around it — is often integrated into our lives at an early age, before we can even articulate material needs and desires. Therefore, our feelings about it are not necessarily rational to our contemporary lives. </li></ul>

Dealing With Financial Anxiety

The goal isn’t to eradicate money worries entirely. Some amount of anxiety around money is healthy. Then, the challenge is not banishing the anxiety but moderating it — which can require practical, measured action. That could mean looking for a new job, hiring a financial planner, consolidating debt, or asking a friend to sit next to you for moral support (or enforcement) while you finally open the bills you’ve been avoiding.

Some Anxiety Around Money Is Useful

Perhaps the most brutal truth about money anxiety is that money actually is worth worrying about. For all the psychological acrobatics and emotional coping mechanisms, the best solution to financial anxiety is and will always be improving the reality of your finances — which is, of course, significantly easier said than done. You can manage your financial anxiety and discover how childhood trauma shaped your understanding of money, but you can’t opt out of money-related stress, because you can’t opt-out of money.

Money Is Worth Worrying About

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Why We’ll Never Get Rid of Our Money Anxieties

Low lives who are incapable of working a respectable job to carry themselves through life, with a meaningful income, feel its ok to use their existence to spread toxicity virtually, to sign up to some corrupt society of agents out to steal, taking advantage of cyber security breaches. Selfish. Self centred. Sly.Looking at this from the eyes of love, its clear a scammer is lost, weak and wayward. They clearly are damaged souls that require therapy with an empathetic, non judgemental professional to seek rehabilitation and learn to earn an honest living for themselves. Call your doctor.

Note To Online Scammers

Some people lose their connection to the soul. To the heart. To the brain. Stealing may feel easy but your only exhausting your self, burdening it with a heavy darkness. If you steal today, don't you think a time will come where you will be held to account for your misdeeds? Take what you will just now, but remember, its only your own soul that you are burdening. Your innocent victims will find salvation in being tested by a calamity, whereas you will face your demons and nobody will be able to save you except your self. Learn to earn decently before the darkness surrounds you and eats you up.

Why Steal Instead Of Earn?

Love instead of hate. When you fixate on a hateful feeling, it will only consume you. Its your self that will burn and lose touch of sanity.If you feel mad and unable to forgive, take a few moments to lay still. Contemplate on the bigger picture. Imagine the desperate and pathetic state the wrongdoer must have been in to succumb to a deed so low. Maybe they come from a place of sadness and fear. We can only imagine and make allowances to save our self from despair.

Love For The Sake Of Your Self

Money is like water, you will never ever have enough to drink.

Nobody is perfect. Its our destiny to fall many times over. Its how you handle and battle with the 7 deadly sins that counts.If you dance with the devilish thoughts, you will be an obvious toxic energy, scarring your self first. Today, it may feel easy and fun to be dark and negative, but tmrw when your soul is faced with your actions, you will feel regret for your wrongdoings. Only you can save your self.

I Feel Sorry For You 

Love don't hate.

After suffering a trauma type situation, take a moment to draw a line and move forward with your head held high. Dont take too much notice of the opinions of others, only take into account what you have to say for yourself.Feel sorry for the person who danced with the devil to hurt you. Its ok for you, as long as you don't let the hate consume you. Smile in the face of adversity. Dont stoop to the low level state. Be better. Feel sorry for them for submitting to the darkness.

Forgive And Be Positive

Dont click on a link you didnt ask for.Dont answer a call you weren't expecting.Always hang up and call the business line direct. Remember, any professional business has a duty of care for its customers. If you are targeted by a con artist claiming to be from a certain company, dont hesitate to hang up and do your own investigation.

Protection From Online Scams

A professional call handler is trained to accept a customers uneasiness to divulge personal information or to trust you are calling from where you say you are. Furthermore, a professional call handler is trained to NOT disclose your personal information to you, to verify you. In this instance it is best practice to allow the customer a moment to control the situation and call back as they see fit.If the call handler is persistent, you need to disconnect, dont bother to be virtually polite when you have doubt, dont give their toxic energy a second longer in connection with you.

Seems Dodgy, So Dodge It

If they want money tell them to go to the bank and get their own loan. Set up monthly payment plan for themselves.You are not born to be somebody else's saviour. You need to save your self. Nobody owes anybody a living. Everybody capable of working should learn to earn to feed themselves.If you must lend, make sure to note and sign and date the note. Keep it logged. Make a payment plan. Have a witness. Dont expect a lump sum back weather its £100 or £10,000, only part with what you can afford to not see again. Prepare for the worst case scenario where the borrower refuses to pay back.

EverybodyNeeds Money

The borrower may become vicious and cruel in an attempt to disappear from your life, leaving you in the lurch. They won't be able to face you in social situation any longer. It will be embarassing to see you. A constant reminder. They will attempt to have u displaced so you are left in a deficit, to clear on your own head be it.Con artists have little compassion and empathy for themselves, how can you expect positivity from somebody that can't even love their own soul?

Risky Business 

Only give what you can afford to not have returned to you.

If you are going to borrow, atleast do it with dignity and respect. Dont make the lender chase you and beg you for whats rightfully theirs. Nobody owes you a living. You owe your self first and foremost. Take care of your self, and let others take care of themselves.

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