A girl is a bonus in your amazing life, don’t fucking put her on a pedestal because that’s going to give her ego, and she will not respect you for it because you treated her like a diamond then she will find out that you don’t value yourself.
Remember the golden rule
At the end of the day, If she didn’t like you back that’s fucking awesome. You gave your best shot and she WILL respect you for that.
A really important takeaway lesson here is that you don’t need to please anyone in order to like you because that means that you don’t like yourself.
Love yourself first so that you can love anybody.
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When you respect yourself, you should expect that others will treat you with respect. If they don’t, that’s a clear sign not to engage.
That is not to say that the good will always outweigh the bad. Still, embrace all of it. Don’t wish for it to be any different. You don’t have to like it to work with it—to use it to your advantage. Amor fati— a love of what happens. Because that’s you...
Flirting is the fun part in dating tbh. Flirting is quite easy if you know how to deliver.
Remember: Delivery > Choice of words
Flirting has many different forms:
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