Do Not Degrade Yourself
We are often hurt by people and in the pursuit to making them feel equally bad, we become the bad. But remember, your virtues are determined by who you want to be but by who you are. Thus, don't ever lower your standards or degrade yourself as a person just to make someone feel bad.
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