Seeking validation from people who don't care about us is one of the main reasons we aren't happy. We tend to care about what people say about us and we let that influence our decisions. We end up choosing to do the things that impress other people at the cost of our happiness. This can drive people into a state of depression
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We naturally seek validation from external sources like friends, family and social media (number of likes), but fail to realize that true happiness comes from within us, and real freedom is when we focus on ourselves, not others.
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It's fairly easy to look for the things that make us happy, but we have to note that choosing the wrong things to value can lead to more harm than good. We need to be able to pick the thing that bring us happiness and makes our life better in a general sense.
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The way we process and make decisions depends on our current mental state.
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