Charisma is a skill you can learn. Becoming charismatic requires you to change while also staying true to yourself.

Some people have a natural ability to inspire other people, make them laugh or attract their attention. They are innately charismatic. Yet charisma is also a skill you can learn. Becoming charismatic requires you to change how you present yourself to others, while, at the same time, retaining the essence of your true self.

Start by considering the events and influences that shaped your personality. Much of your sense of self may be more conditioned than innate. It is possible to stay true to your innate characteristics and work on altering any problematic habits that inhibit your charisma.