Don't Make Assumptions
- Ask for clarification when in doubt.
- Be clear in your communication.
- Avoid misunderstandings by being open and honest.
- Be open to hearing the other person's point of view.
- Avoid mind reading and projecting your own thoughts and feelings onto others.
- Don't assume you know what other people are thinking or feeling.
- Ask questions to clarify things.
- "The problem with making assumptions is that we believe they are the truth."
- "When you make assumptions, you make a fool of yourself."
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