Why are you here?

Not, "what" are you doing, but "HOW" are you doing?

• Take time to ask this question and look your partner directly in the eyes while asking.
• If you think there's something going on that they need to talk about, touch them on the arm or shoulder as...

Perhaps you were not at the top of the class, not the employee of the month, nor are you the "10" you think your partner wants. But you're probably pretty spectacular in some way, and definitely good enough in most areas of life. If ever there were a time to stop beating yourself up for being hum...

"You are afraid of dying. But, come now, how is this life of yours anything but death?" - Seneca

• Most of us are afraid of dying. But sometimes this fear begs the question: To protect what exactly? For a lot of people the answer is: hours of television, gossiping, wasting pote...