3. Ask Questions
Ask them questions about their story. If they get defensive or seem uncomfortable, they might be lying.
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Ever find yourself questioning if someone is telling the truth? Trusting your instincts and observing subtle cues can unveil deception. Here are five steps to help you uncover the truth:
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