Fault Finding With Caution

Rather than focusing on the faults of your spouse, focus on what he or she does well. Let your words reflect an awareness of their strengths, gifts and contributions to your relationship and home.

An atmosphere of fault-finding will destroy the intimacy in any marriage, whether it comes from the wife or the husband – or both.

If a fault is at a level that needs to be addressed for the sake of the relationship, address it. But express your disappointments in a spirit that shows honor.

Be mindful not to criticize your spouse while bringing light to a behavior that brought you pain or concern.