12. SEX ENERGY

Equality assumes that women and men have to behave the same in the bedroom.

However, sex is a power game, where some want to dominate or be dominated. That's normal, even though it goes against our current Western political sensibilities.

• Our sex is ultimately laid down by our genes, which in humans are bundled together in each body cell in twenty-three pairs of microscopic packages called chromosomes.
• One member of each of our twenty-three pairs was acquired from our mother, and the other member from our father.
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Even when you’re not having sex, you can still improve your sex life by using touch in an intimate, but not sexual, way. “Touching is important, but doesn’t always mean sex,” says Morley. “It is important to be intimate with your mate by touching her with love and affection on a daily basis. Kiss...