There is a paradox about using wealth to gain respect and admiration from others. While people may initially be impressed by expensive things, they often don't admire the person behind them. In fact, they may only use your wealth as a comparison for their own desire to be liked.
Instead of chasing admiration through material possessions, focus on characteristics that will truly garner respect and admiration from others, such as humility, kindness, and empathy. These qualities will bring you more genuine respect than any flashy car ever could.
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Doing well with money has a little to do with how smart you are and a lot to do with how you behave. In this book, Morgan Housel outlines the 20 of the most important flaws, biases, and causes of bad behavior that affect people when dealing with money.
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No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are.
People tend to want wealth to signal to others that they want to be liked and admired. But in reality, those other people often bypass admiring you, not because they don’t think wealth is admirable, but because t...
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