Link things. Like to remember someone’s birth date just save their name on your phone along with the date.

• Assume first that you are doing the easiest thing, and not the most difficult.
• Do not deny someone’s responsibility for it exempts them of all agency and power. Things don’t happen on their own, all involved have personal responsibility, including the victims.
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Whatever you do, _do _say hello, and be genuine.

If you’re the type who walks into a room and you don’t know what to say and you don’t say hello, never think they’re going to give you the benefit of the doubt. They’re going to think you’re avoiding them or a snob.

If you don’t re...