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Every Situation Has Two Handles. Which One Will You Grab? - RyanHoliday.net

Every Event Has Two Sides

Every Event Has Two Sides
  • Every event has two sides, two handles by which we can hold it. We normally have the tendency to go towards the challenging, objectively difficult or complicated handle.
  • We need to seize the other handle, which has a better perspective, and provides us with opportunities.
  • Focusing on what we can control, for instance, is far better than just focusing on what has gone wrong.

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