3. It’s all about them.

When we’ve been hurt in relationships, it’s tempting to critique ourselves: to wonder what we did wrong and to examine our flaws.

But being ghosted is not about you; it’s about your ghost’s values and operating style.

Your ghost has just given you a flash of insight into their style of relating in intimate relationships. If it gets hard, I’ll run. I’ll do only what works for me. Is that what you want in a partner?