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While your children need to know that you acknowledge and respect their individuality, it also counts when you uplift the family as a unit. Make family time a regular and special part of your routine.

• Eat meals together most nights of the week, and have everyone share their peaks and p...

To reach an agreement during the family conflict, listening is imperative. Only by actively listening to each party can you understand what he is trying to communicate. Active listening involves cuing in on the other person’s tone and body language, allowing him to speak without interruptions or ...

Let your kids know that things don’t always have to be so serious between you. Of course, you want them to respect your authority, but you also want to laugh with them. A sense of fun can liven up their lives and build fond memories.

• Make crazy faces or noises to supplement mealtimes o...

You can enrich the relationship you have with your child by connecting with them in an age-appropriate way. Teach, work on projects, and play on a level that your child is familiar with. This helps them bond with you and makes you seem more approachable.

• If you have a toddler, get on t...

If you cannot resolve the problem on your own, consult with a family therapist who can offer you practical advice about managing your family’s problem.

Validation pertains to showing another that you recognize, value, and accept his thoughts, opinions, or beliefs.[2] Of course, your own opinions may differ greatly, but using validation demonstrates that you see the other as ...

Direct communication is essential to effective conflict resolution. Each party should use “I” statements to clearly state your needs, wants, and concerns.

• Remember, you are aiming to de-escalate the conflict and work towards a solution. Using “I” statements allows everyone to express t...

Parents who have good relationships with their children are involved in their lives. You can’t expect to have a strong bond with your children if you simply say “good morning” and “good night” each day.

• It’s understandable that you’re busy juggling work and other responsibilities, but ...

Spending time together as a unit is essential. You should also set aside time to focus on each individual child. Prioritizing one-on-one time helps you form a connection with each child. Plus, it also helps you focus on each child’s individual strengths and talents.

• Find a shared hobby...

Once everyone has shared their needs, wants, and concerns, then strive for a compromise. Consider all the suggestions that each party has provided and look for a middle ground. Everyone present should feel good about the proposed solution. If necessary, develop a contract or written agreement out...