The more you give respect to others,  the more will other respects you back. It can be difficult at once. But as soon it becomes a habit, you will be most respected among others. This is a basic law of nature. Feel it by thinking about it sitting alone.

It is important to understand even the things which can't talk or shout on us, wants respect also. The laptop or mobile on which you are reading this, deserves a huge respect from you. Is charging device is not enough? No. It is like action-reaction interaction. If you respect your mobile, I bet it will never leave you in your worst times. 

How do I respect non-livings? It is simple. Just thank them after you use them. If you are shy, do it in your mind. The subconscious world will do the rest.

People respect matures. A child wants attention not respect. A teenager wants attention from parents and respect from friends. An adult wants respect. So be mature. 

How to? It's simple again. Give yourself time. Sit alone for some time daily. Talk to yourself. Your inner-you knows more about you. Try it. Talk with your you.

Achieve something in your life. Apart from YouTube Subscribers. Something that forces youngers or may be elders to respect you. So that they mention you in their words. Start with small. People with Job and people without job, compare two you will find what i want to tell you.

Just don't be rude in the whole process. I agree that path will be difficult, but don't lose your temper. Else you will ruin all your hard work. 

Pythagoras quoted "A fool is known by his speech and a wise man by silence"

If you want to know about respect issues with boys, read "Love and respect issues with boys" on my profile.