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To change reality, stop denying it

To change reality, stop denying it

Solving problems has to start with getting an accurate picture of reality and then deciding what to do about it

Forming opinions before trying to get all of the facts straight leads to bad decisions, poor choices, and further frustration down the line. In many cases, it exacerbates the problem.

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  • When you have a choice between telling the truth or protecting someone’s feelings, it’s better to go with the truth, in a respectful way.
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