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To Change Reality, Stop Denying It - Nat Eliason

To change reality, stop denying it

To change reality, stop denying it
Solving problems has to start with getting an accurate picture of reality and then deciding what to do about it

Forming opinions before trying to get all of the facts straight leads to bad decisions, poor choices, and further frustration down the line. In many cases, it exacerbates the problem.

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