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Specific Statements

Asking a girl whether she is on her periods when you see her being cocky or moody....

You can only ask this question to someone who you really know well and not just to someone.

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How To Be Not Offensive

One thing you can do to avoid being offensive is to make a clear line between General and Specific statements.

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What Happens If You Mixes Them

Mixing them causes problems

In one case it will make the other person feel that you really don't know them well which incase you should.

In other case you just made a bad assumption which turns out to be very offensive.

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General Statements

Asking a girl whether she had a bad day or didn't sleep well when you see her being cocky or moody....

You can ask this question to anyone who you really don't know that well.

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How To Use This

While making any statement or question, pause for few seconds and rethink.

Ask yourself whether the thing you are going to say is relatable to that person and the situation or you just making some bad assumption.

Or you can improvise on it as you can gather ...

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3. "What's important to you?"

3. "What's important to you?"

When you know your partner is trying to make an important decision, ask them this question. Another way to ask it is, "What do you really want?

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1. "How are you doing today?"

1. "How are you doing today?"

Not, "what" are you doing, but "HOW" are you doing?

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Self-knowledge as self-interpretation

Self-knowledge as self-interpretation

We see ourselves making a choice, & when asked why, we just try to make as much sense of it as possible when making an explanation. But we do this so quickly and with such ease that we think we actually know the answer when we answer why

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