SAVI SHARMA

• Smile. A smile is the most memorable feature after first meeting someone.
• The right handshake. A proper handshake can convey confidence.
• Introductions. Throw in a verbal introduction as you meet with people, even something as basic as "great to meet you".
• Speak clearl...

Many times when people hear a talk on boundaries and taking responsibility for their own lives, they say, “That’s so self-centered. We should love one another and deny ourselves.” Or, they actually become selfish and self-centered. Or, they feel “guilty” when they do someone a favor. 

The actual words don't matter. What counts is the lightness of tone that comes from an impression of the legitimacy or our position. For example:

• I love this song as well, but at the moment, I need to get some sleep (when someone is playing their music loudly nea...