Stop Thinking About Others
What's worse than failing? Failing in front of others! As social animals, we do care about how we are getting perceived.
But we need to understand and consciously stop thinking about what others are thinking. If we want to improve and learn, we need to make peace with the fact that we may appear like a loser in front of others.
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Many a times I have stopped myself to attempt something new and sabotaged my own growth in fear of failure and getting called a loser. I wrote this to help anyone who feels the same.
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