Around Us : Fluid Boundaries

We often find someone around us who is visibly upset , in pain or behaving unusually. What should we do , are we crossing our boundaries when we offer help or a friendly shoulder to cry. The boundaries around us often become fluid when we need help, a human touch, some consolation, company, or a simple urge to talk. It's painful if we are not allowed to talk in our mother tongue for a stretch of time. And it is a bliss if we find a soul to do so in an unexpected place.