Self-improving

Usually we belong to groups that aren't high-valuable, and when we start becoming better than those who are around us, they will envy you and passively kick you out.

Those who aren't comfortable being alone or facing hard times will let go of their dreams and goals in order to get accepted by group members.

The other ones will move alone and become successful materially, spiritually, personally and only then they will observe a phenomenon of high-value people wanting to found a good relationship/partnership