Measure the gain

... instead of the gap. It is a far more powerful process.

It’s very important that you take time to examine and measure where you are from where you’ve been. When you do this, there are a host of psychological benefits:  enormous amounts of gratitude and appreciation into your life....

1. It doesn’t matter where you’ve been or how much trauma you’ve experienced, you can always come out stronger.
2. Instead of believing in overnight success, work hard and push yourself to be your best self. 
3. Take advantage of the 40% rule to become the master of your mind and achi...

Rember that reality is often not polarized at all. To control the gap instinct, look for the majority.

• Beware comparisons of averages. If you could check the spreads you would probably find they overlap. There is probably no gap at all.