10. Friendships Need to Be Matched in Their Give and Take - Deepstash

10. Friendships Need to Be Matched in Their Give and Take

Studies show that relationships are much more likely to last if both members feel like they’re getting as much out of the relationship as they’re putting it. 

So if you’re always the one who has to make plans to meet up with your friends, and they’re not putting in as much effort, the friendship is more likely to fizzle out. 

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