7. Forget fairness; give back more than you receive.

It is better to walk alone than to walk with a load. You should make sure that all those who bring negativity, even if they are close to your heart, exit your life. 

You will constantly go through life with baggage you do not need if you keep people around you that weigh you down. 

• Doing something people find valuable should be able to push your metric scores up, as a by-product. This is the real-world proof of quality in this age.
• Similarly, if we do something, and the metrics go down, it’s a clear indication the action was wrong, no matter how right it seem...

They don't wait to be asked; they get things started and involve others, even when they're not officially in charge. They lead or follow on-demand rather than by command. 

They don't assume that other people are in charge who will tell them when they are needed and what to ...