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Emotions don’t just magically appear out of thin air. Like a river, emotions must have a source. According to Dr. Smith, they always result from unmet needs. Therefore, if we want to handle our emotions well, we must identify and address those needs. As a result, the emotions will pass.
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“Courage precedes confidence,” Dr. Smith says. So build it in small steps, and if you ever catch yourself panicking, give “square breathing” a try. The corners of the object will distract you, and a few cycles of deep breathing will come with an instant feeling of calm. The only thing you’ll be l...
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Dr. Smith has walked the walk. She’s been a clinical psychologist for over a decade and has treated hundreds of patients in her practice. Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? is a warm, concise,...
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“Feelings aren’t just in your head,” Dr. Smith says. They can come from inside your body, the state of your household, your current circumstances, things that happened in the past, and of course the people you interact with. To draw out your unmet needs, Smith recommends asking yourself several q...
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The problem with bad moods is that they love to stick around. We feel tired after work, so we eat half a bag of chips — only to then kick ourselves for making the wrong decision , which makes us even more likely to re...
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The point of “good enough” decisions is not to solve our problems in one go. It is to show us change is possible, to make us feel good about moving in the right direction, and to lay the foundation for better habits that will, ...
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Unlike a groggy morning that can be countered with some coffee, anxiety is often a longer-term problem. We’ll have to deal with it step by step. Dr. Smith gives an example of someone who became uncomfortable with large crowds during the pand...
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The 23-year-old, overworked student who puts too much pressure on herself, the 38-year-old new mom who is struggling with postpartum issues, and anyone who feels constantly stressed at work.
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"Thoughts are not Facts. They are a mix of opinions, judgements, stories, memories, theories, interpretations, and predictions about the future."
-Dr. Julie Smith
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Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? is a collection of a clinical psychologist’s best practical advice to combat anxiety and depression and improve our mental health in small increments, co...
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Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? became an instant bestseller, covering topics like depression, motivation, grief, fear, stress, and meaningful living. The book gently shows us how to regain...
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According to Dr. Julie Smith , I’m not the only one this happens to, but the onset of anxiety and other negative emotions is never sudden — it just seems this way. Smith was the first professional psychologist to take to TikTok to share what she has lea...
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Returning to my to-do list anxiety, instead of vowing I will complete every item on one of my lists, I can just say, “this project is important right now, so let me check off one item here and go from there.” As for your chips-eating bender, you could try making yourself a cup of tea to calm down...
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Do you ever get anxious out of nowhere? I do. I keep lots of to-do lists to manage various aspects of my life, and most of the time, it’s a helpful thing. Sometimes, however, I think about all these different lists and the countless items on them, and I freeze. “So much to do! When am I going to ...
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