when i start to get upset by someone’s actions i turn to my warrior and i acknowledge his frustration we discuss what pissed him off, then i ask why did it piss him off could i have done something to prevent it. Which all boils down to we can’t control peoples actions, or words. However understanding people’s actions have consequences, and understanding which consequences to react on compared to which ones to let go will help a lotcommon sense should definitely be utilized in this..